The "new beginning" to this blog is literal, it's been a year since I started it and since I posted. It also refers to the beginning of another lesson in the making. It appears the beginning of another stage in the life of my family is at hand. My Mom has Alzheimers Disease. You might think this is an ending. It is not. A beginning is at hand for "The Stone Kids" as we have often called ourselves. There are 5 of us from this Mother. Each of us having played an important role in the lives of the others. Each of us taking on new roles in this process our Mom is going through.
We are a strong group. One of the first lessons we learned was "Take on one Stone, you take on them all". Trust me when I say, we've had to prove it. Even with the youngest now being 46 years old, these 5 are unbreakable. As the eldest (Sharon, 55) says, we have our own language. She is correct. We have our own way of talking to, teaching, teasing each other, a sense of humor many do not understand. Our own children, who grew up with, suffered though, enjoyed much and benefited from this group of siblings, often do not understand us. My Gyppo husband who has been in the family for 36 years, since Chris the youngest was 10, does not quite get our communication at times. Our half brother and sister do permeate our little clique and sometimes, it feels as though we are 7.
From this Mother though, bound by circumstances known only to us, tied together by memories that are only ours, we are five.
Perhaps this writing will help me, perhaps it will help my siblings, perhaps it will help you. I cannot promise regularity, perfect grammar, or a sense of humor all will appreciate. I will attempt honesty and understanding, as my siblings and I strive to learn and fully appreciate the lesson at hand.
The Hands That Rocked Our Cradles
(Thank You Sharon and Dennice for the Photo)
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